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Parent self-care: Why you matter too when raising neurodivergent kids

By Kanjo
4 min
Last updated
May 22, 2025
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Parenting a child with ADHD or autism is a journey full of love, learning, and unique rewards — but it can also be overwhelming, exhausting, and emotionally draining. Many parents focus so fully on their child’s needs that they forget a simple truth: you matter too.

Your well-being directly affects your ability to care for, support, and advocate for your child. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish — it’s essential. Here are some simple, meaningful ways to protect your own mental and emotional health.

Ways to Care for Yourself

🌿 Take Regular Short Breaks
Even 10 minutes of quiet, deep breathing, or stepping outside can reset your energy and help you feel less overwhelmed. You don’t need a big vacation — small moments matter.

🌿 Build a Small Support Network
Stay connected with people who understand and support you, whether that’s family, friends, or online parent groups. Sharing experiences reduces isolation and reminds you you’re not alone.

🌿 Learn to Say No
You don’t have to do everything or please everyone. Protect your time and energy by turning down commitments that drain you or add unnecessary stress.

🌿 Celebrate Small Wins
Notice and honor the small victories in both your child’s progress and your own. Did you handle a meltdown calmly? Did you advocate for a school accommodation? That’s worth celebrating.

🌿 Seek Professional Support if Needed
If you’re feeling burned out, anxious, or stuck, consider speaking with a counselor, therapist, or support group. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

💛 Final Thought

When you care for yourself, you show up stronger, steadier, and more present for your child. You are not just a parent — you are a whole person, and your health matters, too.

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